Shifting from talking to a woman and becoming intimate can sometimes
be a difficult transition. It may be easy to engage her in conversation,
but it is another thing to transition into the bedroom and become more
intimate.
Don't sit around and wait on that rare woman to approach you. Rather,
you need to learn the art of seduction. So, if you find it difficult
to get to the bedroom with a girl, do not worry. To seduce a woman you
simply need the right technique and some practice.
Here are five seduction tips you can use. Take some time to learn
each one, implement them and practice. Soon, you will find that it really
isn't that difficult to transition from conversation to intimacy.
Tip 1: Make Sure She is Attracted To You
Before you can even begin to seduce her, you need to be sure she is
attracted to you. Otherwise, the tips below will be useless.
The best way to accomplish this is to flirt heavily while you are talking
to her and slightly introduce the topic of sex into the discussion.
You should definitely not be afraid to tease her. This keeps the conversation
light and fun. The more relaxed she is with you, the easier it will
be to take things to the next level and seduce her.
Tip 2: Initiate Physical Contact During the Conversation
This is one of the more important seduction tips. During the conversation,
it is essential that you slightly touch her when you want to make a
point about a comment you made or even in reaction to one of her comments.
Of course, do not go overboard with this tip.
Seduction is a process. It is about building chemistry, rapport and
attraction. It is not about whipping your clothes off and jumping directly
into bed.
However, initiating physical contact while you are talking helps her
become more comfortable with you. Now, if you notice her shying away
when you touch her, she is probably not interested in you as a potential
sexual partner. This tip is a good way to evaluate her interest level
also so you do not waste too much time, only to find out in the end
she really isn't interested.
Tip 3: Take Things to a Private Spot
This third tip is another important step in the seduction process. The
final two tips cannot work without it, though it really is just the
next logical move. Basically, you need to be in a location where you
can actually have sex whether it is back to your place or her place.
To make this happen, though, she needs to trust you. So, when you are
talking to her and flirting, work on building that trust and being trustworthy.
Do not say anything to make her "think twice" or question you. The more
she trusts you, the easier it will be to seduce her and move things
to a private spot.
Tip 4: Kiss Her the Right Way
Once you have made it to a private location, it is time to begin working
on the physical side.
Once you have been touching her and know that she is attracted to you,
you can go ahead and kiss her. But, how you kiss her is very important
at this stage.
Do you ram your tongue down her throat, but rather go slowly and lightly.
You want to kiss her passionately. Once you notice her responding to
this, you can increase the intensity.
Tip 5: Increase the Intensity
In the final tip, you can move from kissing to sex. After you have kissed
her for awhile, begin to tease her. Kiss or lightly nibble her neck,
or pull her hair. The goal is to turn her on, but take you time doing
it. Focus on pleasuring her, not you.
After a little teasing, you can move on to other foreplay. If you have
followed the relationship advice above, you should find that it is not
a difficult transition to move into sex. Always remember to take your
time and let things gradually build in intensity.
Ultimately, following these five tips above can make having sex with
a woman a lot easier. Always remember that the seduction process is
just that -a process. You must build the attraction and develop trust.
So, learn these tips above, implement them and practice them. You will
be glad you did!
About the Author: Scott
Patterson
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