Tempo…
The main thing here is variation – don’t just do the same
thing the whole time. Start slow and lingering, let the intensity build,
then back off again – pay attention to the signals your partner
is giving you. Everybody has a different kissing style – experiment!
Touch…
Women often like to be caressed while they are kissing. Try caressing
her hair from her forehead to her neck behind her ear and then gently
feel her back. Alternating between using the full face of the palm and
your fingertips creates different sensations.
Tongue…
Learn to use your tongue skillfully. The tongue can be used in a variety
of ways to heighten enjoyment while kissing. Try starting by circling
the tip of your partner’s tongue with your tongue then gently
probe a little further. Use small flicking movements or slow rhythmic
ones. Some people enjoy have their tongue gently sucked (some don’t).
Remember to be aware of your partner’s responses and what you’re
doing.
Be in the moment…
Relax and ENJOY the kiss. You have both probably been anticipating
it for some time, now is the moment to forget everything else and focus
on the sensations, the feel of your partner’s lips, their taste,
and their smell.
What Do Kisses Mean ...
Kiss on the Upperchest or Stomach ~ I'm ready
Kiss on the Forehead ~ We're cute together
Kiss on the Cheek ~ We're friends
Kiss on the Hand ~ I adore you
Kiss on the Neck ~ I want you, now
Kiss on the Shoulder ~ Your perfect
Kiss on the Lips ~ I think I like you