3. Shake Hands
Shaking hands is an opportunity to touch the other person and should
not be passed up. Reaching out, touching a hand, holding it, squeezing
it, and letting go are all very sensual, tactile, personal activities.
A good handshake requires a firm (but not strong) grip with energy.
Focus on the sensation; perhaps try a tiny squeeze just before ending.
4. Eye Contact
Direct eye-contact can be extremely effective and powerful but should
not last for more that a few seconds at a time. Eye contact establishes
intimacy and it can be intrusive. The power with which you lock eyes
for the first time will determine the starting level of the conversation.
If you lock eyes in a tentative fashion, expect a tentative conversation.
If you feel a thunderbolt, fantastic! But be aware that overly sexual
or inviting eye invitations are the main cause of misinterpretations
of motives between two people.
5. Ask Questions
Everyone likes to talk about themselves. Don’t ask anything
too personal and don’t “interrogate” them; simply
ask interesting or unusual questions…and listen to their answers.
Happy Flirting!
